I just opened the new shop, and I already have a comrade mad at me. I found some classical art on their blog, and put it in my file. I used two images here. Okay I should asked first,...sorry.
Look I'm in an emotional state cut me some slack. Still sorry about it.
Hi there, you already know me. I quite like you. But I have chosen from an early age to oppose certain sexual relations, and I have never participated in a certain sexual thing - the topic of your earlier post. I do consider it a form of abuse. I chose my links based upon whether the the site appears to admire but NOT endorse sexual relations with the subject. I am the kind of person to link, anyways, but put a disclaimer, but I simply have, shall we say, "enemies", who could make mincemeat of me.
ReplyDeleteAs for the photos and borrowing them, I usually post photos whose copyright has expired, and I agree with Wikipedia's stance that photos of classic art are derivative, so they are not copyrighted, either, if the work is old enough.
So, borrow away!
I believe that males are supposed to be attracted to males, but then subliminate that desire and express it in an acceptable manner, including affection, sports, art and everything else, but not sex.
Rather than me linking to you, let's discuss things. Discussion does not imply endorsement.
Thanks,
Art
Hi Art!,
ReplyDeleteGlad you're not mad at me. I'm really vulnerable emotionally these daze so thanks.
Yeah by all means lets talk!
Guys should love each other, and have sloppy sex as often as possible. This might,..if we overlook Sparta or Draka work for a saner world.
I just include youths, and boys into the gleeful mix. Gimme a break, you're going to kick Bill from "Tokio Hotel" out of the sack?!
Well okay he's 20 now, but he was a beauty since he was 12,..still is too.
But seriously,..if a lad fell in love/lust with you what would you do.
Okay if you don't wanna bleep'em through floorboards would you at least return the affections.
Write him love sonnets, sing to him, take him to one of them nude lesbian mud wrestling contests.
Loads of weird laffs there.
Anyhow glad you're out there.
Peace.
Well I heartily endorse your POV Sidney.
ReplyDeleteYou've probably seen that vid where the 13-year-old Bill sings "It's Raining Men" in front of a German TV audience who surely knew what it meant, as no doubt did Bill. He sang it with a passion, and very well to boot. Now that's my kinda lad!
Hi Art Fanatic....
ReplyDeleteI do enjoy your blogs very much, and speaking for myself and myself alone, I can understand your stand on sublimation, at least on a theoretical level. It's a laudable goal to strive for, but doesn't always stand up too well to reality.
However there have been times in my life when I found sublimation to be very poor emotional fodder indeed, and nothing would do but a real, live, breathing, corporeal person to make the emptiness and loneliness go away, at least for a while.
I congratulate you on your stand. Age, infirmity and other factors have conspired to force me closer to complete celibacy than I ever have been. This doesn't make me a hero and shouldn't in anyone's eyes. It just makes me a realist.
And sometimes reality sucks...
Mr. Chips
And that's why god invented rent boiz.
ReplyDeleteIf god invented rent boys then I'm a believer!
ReplyDeleteThat Art Fanatic dude is a real sicko. Don't take him seriously Sid! There are a lot of sad people like him in the world, spreading lies about the glorious pleasures of the flesh.
ReplyDeleteLads naturally fall in love/lust with those who help them. To avoid an inappropriate response, engineer the circumstances BEFOREHAND so that you will not be tempted to take advantage of this. There must be people, always, who might drop in at any second. The lad must know that you are not into that sort of thing and you would talk to others about it if it happened.
ReplyDeleteIf the lad is immature - get out of there. He may feel conflicted and end up accusing YOU of approaching him, when, in reality, he fantasizes about the reverse.
Alphonso:
ReplyDeleteTo partake in or deny oneself the pleasures of the flesh is a choice that an individual can make only for himself. If he chooses not to indulge, it doesn't make him sad or sorry or sick.
A choice has to be something that works for the person and for any others he may get involved with. While I believe I have a right to choose, and a right to have an opinion-agree or disagree-about someone else's choice, I have no right to denigrate it, because when I do that it speaks of the person and not the choice he has made.
I also believe it to be mortally wrong to want to forcefully impose my choice on others, be I a moralist or an amoralist. Forced decisions never fundamentally change anyone else's mind.
Peace,
Mr. Chips
On the whole I am inclined to agree with Alphonso.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was in the "Program" I was compelled to make choices that I knew wouldn't work for me. Either that or ten more years in the slammer. If I disagreed I was labelled as "sick" or "noncompliant."
ReplyDeleteThat has led me to conclude that a person has a right to make whatever decisions about his life that work for him. I can offer feedback, but I am not called to pass judgement on his choices, or compel him to do what his informed conscience would not have him do.
Were I to do so, it would put me in the position of playing the bully, or if I had power over him, put me in the ranks of the oppressors. For me that is not a tenable position.
Mr. Chips